"New Job Stress, Work Anxiety, and Sexual discontent fill the bedroom at night since my Husband started his New Job"
Help me Cure my Sexual Anxiety Problem
When my husband started looking for a New Job after being laid off we had plenty of time together and I got use to having all of his attention to myself. We stayed up late at night, cooked and cleaned together but best of all was the incredible times we had in the evening. Our love life was at the pinnacle of our relationship and we developed a zest for trying new and different things. Sex in the bedroom had become quite exciting and when we made Love the sheets would just about catch on fire and the windows would steam up.
Since his New Job he has Developed Job Stress and Work Anxiety
When my husband was hired on with a company that had just about everything he was looking for we were both thrilled. With one income coming into the household we both new that we could surely use the money to get caught up on bills. It started off good but my excitement was short live as with each day he came home exhausted and hungry. I would feed him and before I knew it he was off to bed. I tried putting on sexy outfits and even wore nothing but a towel and it would catch his eye but there was no sparks. He would talk about his day and it just seemed he was so stressed out and worried that he wasn't good enough. His job stress and work anxiety only grew with time and our sex life totally vanished. I spend all day long thinking about making love to him and I have been developing a bit of a sexual anxiety. When we lay down together in bed at night I find it so hard to get to sleep. I cuddle next to him and Hope and pray each night that he will be in the mood.
Is My Husband having Sex with another woman?
For awhile I was getting the idea that maybe my husband was seeing someone else. His lack of interest for me started to make me think the worst. I started calling him more often and would visit him at his job during lunch just to check up on him. I consider hiring a Private investigator but instead I decide to watch him myself. I soon discovered that I shouldn't have doubted my husband. He worked all day long and even worked most of his lunches. I questioned him about his job and he would go into great detail about what he needed to learn and I could feel his stress as he talked about it. Seems like he took a Job that he knew nothing about and now his expectations and bosses expectations are not quite panning out. I told him he should look for another Job but he just shook his head and said he had no time to do that. Of course he ate dinner and went straight to bed.
Sexual Discontent reaches a new High
My Husband doesn't want sex and I need it so bad. His New Job has created Stress and is developing into a Work Anxiety meanwhile I am so horny and have developed a sexual anxiety which is causing me to be stressed out and frustrated. I'm not quite sure what to do as I struggle through my evenings feeling very unloved and unwanted. My girlfriends have told me to find someone on the side but I couldn't do that. I married my husband for better or worse and thats a promise I have to keep.
Help with my Anxiety
I was online researching sexual anxiety and found your site. After reading about anxieties,stress, and depression I have found a solution to my problems. Your site has given me the information I need to change the way I deal with my problems and also the way my husband deals with his. I bought the video course on Anxiety and stress and one of the Anxiety books that you recommended. I have slowly have begun to understand how to change the negatives of stress to a positive. When my husband comes home at night I have a warm bath ready for him and then feed him dinner as soon as he is done. I give him a back massage to help him relax and then talk about some of the things we use to do that we enjoyed. I have learned how to channel my husbands thought and get his mind off work. After doing this for about two weeks my husband has totally changed and he looks forward to getting home and rarely talks about work. He now focuses on the time we have together and when we make love, "We make Love"! My sex life couldn't be better and my husband seems to be adjusting at work with ease.
Thanks for the Anxiety Information!
Your site has been a blessing and I appreciate Curemyanxiety for all of the information you have provided. Your book recommendations have been great and I will definitely tell a friend. I also put a link on my myspace page to your site.
Thanks
Becky
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