Is your Addiction to Love causing Wrinkles in your relationship?
"Sexual needs that exceed that of your partner can have very harmful effects on your long term relationship".
Symptoms of a Sexual Problem
If your needs seem to be unsatisfied and you find yourself exploring such things as online porn sites, adult magazines, or day dreaming about different women then your on course to a rude awakening. Many times especially with men, the sexual drive can take control of your life and leave your relationship in a position of being shattered. If you think your partner is ok with your sexual desires and activities then your probably completely wrong. Often a partner will stand bye until they can no longer put up with your activities. As your ever growing need into the world of seual desires increases your partner starts to feel unloved and unneeded.
Here are some of the signs of Sexual Addiction
Thoughts of other women when having sex
Keeping adult books around the house
Pleasuring yourself often when your partner is not around
Having a video porn collection that your proud of
Searching the internet for sexual materials to satisfy your needs
Getting involved in group sex or online sites that provoke that kind of behavior
Needing it everyday with strong emotions almost requiring you to have it.
How to cure your addiction
Your addiction or your partners addiction can stem from many different things including that of past problems within your own family. It may also have been a learned behavior that was picked up over the course of years growing up in a home that had abuse, or even love that was not truly love at all. Parents who stay together based on sex often exhibit the wrong patterens giving way to innapropriate relationships that are only held together by sex and convenience.
To cure a sexual pattern that has been place for years that are several things you can do. One of the first things you must do is to start doing activities that are more on a realistic relationship such as family outings, camping, going for walks together and finding out more about each other then you had previously known. In a healthy relationship you should be able to list the many different things that your partner likes to do and know information such as where they were born and raised and almost all their personal needs and wants. You should be one with your partner and feel inseparateable emotionally and not sexually.
Patterns of sex can be changed with getting involved in other activities. Often these patterns develop because of a lack of things to do. When you seek out and find healthy activities or hobbies then slowly your relationship can start to grow emotionally and on more of a healthier level. Starting a hobby that requires your attention and focus can direct your enrgy of need to a more positive aspect in your relationship. In doing so you will discover there is more to a relationship that having and thinking about sex.
So its time to pass that stage of puberty youve been stuck in for years and develop a true relationship built on Love. I wish you well and hope that your addiction can be quenched!
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